Group Rules
Home About Us Components CHOICES Manual Related Links Web Discussion
Steven E. Mussack, PH.D. Psychologist and Program Director

Group Rules
Check-in Sheet
Thinking Errors
Clarification
No Contact
Cycle
Readings
Travel
Completion

 

  1. Weekly attendance with a call 24 hours in advance for absences unless there is an emergency.
  2. Arrive on time.  It is considered disrespectful and not caring for self or other group members to be late.
  3. No violence or threats of violence.  It is considered appropriate to express anger but not to threaten or cause harm to come to self or others.
  4. No food or drinks in group.  This can serve as a distraction to self and others.  It can also serve as an ingratiating, attention seeking behavior in the case of a "candy man", someone who passes out goodies to others.  We have seen this type of behavior on several occasions and found it to be a symptom of low self image.
  5. Pay attention in group.  Day dreaming and closing off is considered hurtful behavior to both self and others.  Disruptive behavior is considered in the same manner.
  6. Confidentiality.  It is considered appropriate to share with anyone what the offender himself or herself and the therapists do in group but not to discuss what someone else has done in any way which he/she could be identified.
  7. Disclose any new offenses to the group.  A group member will not automatically be discharged if they do report.  They are made aware that they must be responsible for the consequences of any new offense and that the group will support them through this process.  Failure to report any new offenses may result in discharge from the group.
  8. No secrets.  Secrecy prevents the offender from obtaining help they need and also prevents others from having the opportunity to both provide the help and learn from other's experiences.
  9. Be a true friend.  A true friend is considered someone who will confront inappropriate behavior that he sees in group or is aware of outside the group.  Failure to be a friend promotes deviancy and is secret keeping.  Any group member who chooses not to confront another member when he is aware of a problem is considered to be as responsible for the continued behavior as the member who is exhibiting the behavior.  We also consider it just as important to point out successes and progress.
  10. Bring a pad and something to write with each group.
  11. Bring a tape recorder to each session to record the session.  The tape is expected to be thoroughly reviewed prior to the next session.
  12. Create your own consequences for failure to follow the group rules.  The purpose for a consequence is to promote the occurrence of desired behavior.  Each group member is expected to develop consequences for his own behaviors which they can implement themselves and which are severe enough that following group rules is more desirable than the consequence.  Additionally, this process places responsibility for self control in their own hands.  Such self devised consequences are to be presented to the group and/or program staff for approval.  The primary criteria placed on the consequence is that it involve some activity which is of benefit to others and poses on risk to self or community.  If the inappropriate behavior reoccurs the offender must develop another, more severe self imposed consequence.  Should the offender again repeat a similar behavior expulsion from the treatment program may occur.
  13. Complete all homework on time.  Failure to complete homework on time results in the imposition of a behavioral consequence which the group member devises themselves and completion of the homework by the next session.  Homework is a regular part of therapy.  Group homework assignments are expected to be completed within the time frame given by the therapists.  Individualized homework assignments are presented to the member, with an explanation of the purpose, goals and timelines, as an open contract.  The member must then agree to the plan before he is expected to complete the assignment.  Negotiation is both expected and supported.  The negotiation is done with input from other group members to prevent the development of a contract which is too simple or which has unrealistic timelines.  Once a contract is reached and the member is expressing a willingness to complete the contract, they are expected to do so, on time.  They are given the freedom to renegotiate timelines at any time prior to when the homework is due.  This may necessitate a call to the therapist between sessions.  Such negotiation may or may not be acceptable.  It is not acceptable to come to group when the assignment was due and attempt to renegotiate.  There will be frequent instances where specific homework assignment will be given as an expected and important component of therapy and completion is required.  Members frequently overestimate their abilities which results in a contract breach and their implementation of consequences.  This process aids the member in recognizing both his limitations and abilities.  Efforts will be consistently made to understand and identify difficulties a group member may have in completing an assignment and support for resolving these difficulties will be provided.  Failure to complete two homework assignments within a 60 day period may result in expulsion from the group.
  14. All homework is to be available to be shared within the group.  Homework review will be done by both program staff and other group members.  Review of homework of other program members is an expected part of program participation.
  15. Active participation in group is expected.  Each group member is to enter into group discussions, place self regularly on the group agenda and facilitate participation of other group members.
  16. Regular payment of group fees is expected.
  17. Full introduction of personal sexual deviant histories will be a regular component of group participation.
  18. Each member is expected to involve family members in his therapy to the extent they are able and willing.
 

 

For more information
1234 High St., Suite B, Eugene, OR 97401  (541) 343-7643  mussack@choicesoforegon.com
©2000 CHOICES of Oregon and Steven E. Mussack, PH.D., PC

Problems using the web or error reporting webmaster@choicesoforegon.com